Whether you celebrate Thanksgiving or not, November is a time when many people check in with themselves and take stock of all they have to be thankful for. For some, words can be hard. Luckily, there are many ways to tell someone you love, or appreciate them, without actually saying those three words. Showing someone how much you care about them can be as simple as writing a thoughtful note or participating in one of their favorite hobbies. Whether it’s family, friends, or coworkers, here are 20 unique ways to say (and show) how much you appreciate and care for those in your life.